Personalizing your wedding is a great way make the big day all that special. Adding unique touches that the bride and groom choose themselves is a great way to let guests feel part of the wedding. These small details also transform the ceremony and reception from to a true reflection of the couple and their relationship. 

One specific detail couples can have a lot of personalizing fun with, is creating their own signature wedding cocktail to serve to guests. But how do you decide on the perfect cocktail as the list is endless? Here are a few tips on how to plan the perfect signature cocktail.

Pick Your Favorites: One of the easiest ways to choose a signature cocktail is by simply picking your favorites. Do you or your future spouse have a go to drink you always order at the bar? Picking your favorite drink is a fun way to make your guest learn a little more about you. You can even do a ‘his and her’ signature cocktail naming them “Bride’s Favorite” & “Groom’s Favorite”. 

Go With The Theme: Does your wedding have a theme? This is a perfect chance for you to tie your theme together by narrowing down a drink that fits the theme. Whether it be a black tie even calling for a more classic drink or a tropical theme calling for a fun fruity drink. Have fun with your theme, there is no harm in adding you own twist to a traditional cocktail recipe to spice things up!

Get Sentimental: Take your guests on a walk down memory lane with a sip of your signature cocktail. When dreaming up your signature wedding cocktail think about all the memories you have shared as a couple. Maybe it was a drink you had on your first date, or maybe you are channeling a vacation you took together, make it something meaningful to both of you. Having a sweet story behind your signature cocktail is a great way to personalize your wedding day. 

Add a Beverage Fountain: Don't forget that you can always add a multi-tiered flowing beverage fountain to your wedding package for your special day! Add a touch of elegance to your cocktail hour and choose from sparkling champagne, margaritas, sangria, mimosas, or planter's punch! 

If you are tasked with throwing the bride her shower for the big day it can quickly become overwhelming. With so much to do leading up to the wedding, it’s important to understand the Do’s and Don’ts that come along with planning a bridal shower.

The Do’s

Do take initiative – Get started planning sooner rather than later and it’s never a bad idea to get the bridal shower conversation starter early. There is a lot that goes into planning a bridal shower never mind the actual wedding so giving yourself plenty of time to plan is always a good idea.

Do pick a date & send out invites early- Don’t wait until the last minute to send out invites or no one will be able to attend. Pick a date early on and send out invites so you can hear back from your RSVPs with plenty of time to adjust anything if necessary. Depending on where guests live, some will need to plan travel time so it’s best for everyone to pick a date early.

Do give guidelines for gifts: Give guests coming to the shower some guidelines on gifts. Share the couple's wedding registry on the invites so that people know where to go to get gifts, but also let guests know that they don’t have to stick to the registry if they have something else in mind.

The Don’ts

Don’t take on all the responsibility on your own. You will soon become overwhelmed by all the task necessary to carry out a bridal shower so don’t think you need to do everything on your own. Enlist the help of the other bridesmaids as well as the bride & grooms family to help you cover the cost as well as carry out the tasks of the shower.

Don’t invite anyone who isn’t invited to the wedding: It is not a good idea to invite anyone to the wedding shower who is not invited to the wedding. One rule of thumb is to ask the bride for her guest's list so you can double check your invite list with hers before sending them out to avoid any hurt feelings.

Don’t forget to send thank you notes: This is one of the most important things to remember. Purchase, address and stamp your thank you notes before the big day then print out a list of all attendees and write down their gifts as they are opened so you don’t have to worry about remembering what each gift each person gave.

Don’t forget to book the Canoe Club Ballroom for your Bridal shower we offer a variety of packages to fit your specific needs! 

Wedding showers have evolved over the years. What was once gathering to shower the couple with gifts, has now transformed into a fun-filled day for everyone involve. Now wedding showers are filled with food and fun and no shower is complete without games.  Here are some of our favorite fun and unique games to try out at your wedding shower.

Toilet Paper Dress: Divide guest into teams to make a funky wedding dress for the bride made completely out of toilet paper. To make things interesting give them a time crunch, so teams are forced to rush to create the best, most creative dress they can come up with. To give this game an extra twist try using the wedding announcement section of the newspaper instead of toilet paper

Memory Lane Mysteries: When you send out the bridal shower invites also add a blank note card along with a request for guests to write down their favorite memory with the bride, or the couple. When guests arrive have them drop the cards in a box. Have the bride, or couple read the cards out loud and try to guess who she shared each memory with.

Read Their Mind: If the fiancé is at the bridal shower, try testing their future spouses’ knowledge of their future spouse.  A week or two before the shower ask the fiancé twenty questions about themselves and record their answers. At the shower ask their fiancé the same questions and see if they can “Read Their Mind”.  Each time the fiancé gets it wrong give them a ball of bubble gum to chew. This way the more they get wrong, the harder it will be for them to talk!

Oven Mitts n’ Hose: This game might be best if you have a lively group of woman who are up for a hilarious challenge. This odd combination makes for one hilarious game. Give each of your guests a pair of oven mitts and pantyhose. With the bride acting as the referee tell your guests the first one to get the pantyhose on while wearing the oven mitts wins!

Wedding Pictionary: This is a fun take on the traditional game of Pictionary. To start you’ll need a large pad of paper or a dry erase board with markers and slips of paper. Have your guests fill out slips of paper with wedding related terms and sayings, such as “going to the chapel” or “happily ever after”. Divide guest into teams and take turns pulling of piecing of paper and drawing the image while the rest of your guest guess the correct saying.  The team who guesses the most correct, wins. 

1.) Tell a little bit about yourselves! (Where did you first meet? Where was your first Date?) 

Vijay and I met when Vijay was interviewing for jobs in the MA area.  At the time he was living in DC, but wanted to relocate to the Boston area.  He landed a job interview in Worcester, but did not have anywhere to stay.  He ended up calling one of his few friends in MA, and asked if he could stay with her the night before the interview.  That friend was, conveniently, my roommate at the time!  Vijay stayed with us for a couple of nights, and while we didn't have too much time to get to know each other, I was immediately attracted to him, and ended up friending him on FB after he left town.  

Long story short, Vijay did not get the job he initially interviewed for, but got another job in MA instead.  Vijay and I had stayed in loose contact over FB, because we were both looking for jobs in the ministry field (I was preparing to graduate from grad school at the time).  Vijay moved to MA in August, and we saw each other a few times here and there, because of mutual friends.  Due to a few major miscommunications and mixed signals (at the time, these felt devastating, now we look back on them and laugh!), it took us a while to realize that we were both interested in one another.

After four months of living in the same state, and seeing each other occasionally, Vijay finally decided enough was enough, and called me at work to ask me out!  A funny side bit- Vijay thought he was calling my direct line, and didn't realize he was actually calling the main line, and would be speaking with the receptionist first.  He was so nervous that when the secretary said hello, he asked her out instead!  By the time he was transferred to me, he was beyond flustered!  

I thought Vijay wanted to meet up for professional networking (we were both in the same field), and it wasn't until our mutual friend told me he intended it to be a date that I realized what was happening!

We met up for coffee on December 11th 2013, and talked, and talked, and talked some more.  We didn't even realize how much time had gone by until the barista came over and informed us the coffee shop was closing.  We had talked for over five hours!  We both left that date knowing that something special was happening.  

2.) The Proposal Story! 

Vijay proposed on April 15th 2015.  The day was like any other, and I woke up having absolutely no idea that Vijay was going to propose!  I had no idea that he had been shopping for a ring, and the ring had been hidden in his apartment for over a month.  We had talked about marriage, but I honestly thought he would propose over the summer.  

April 15th was not a special day for us in any way.  The day was a normal one, and after work I headed over to Vijay's apartment.  We decided to go out to dinner, and ended up having the worst dining out experience ever!  After our disaster of a dinner, we headed back to his apartment.  We were just cuddling on the couch, and I snuggled up to him and said, "I can't wait to marry you!"  Vijay said absolutely nothing in response to this.  

Little did I know that Vijay took this as a sign that the moment to propose was now.  His heart started beating really fast as he internally debated over what to do.  I was laying against his chest, and could feel his heart beating rapidly.  I even asked him if he was okay, commenting that his heart was out of control.  However, I did not have the slightest idea that he was preparing to propose!  

Vijay then got up, and went into his room.  I thought he was just changing into his PJs or something.  I had no idea that he was getting the ring out from its secret hiding space!  Vijay then went into the kitchen (I thought he was getting a snack), and asked me to come in and look at something.  I had been laying on the couch this whole time, and rather than get up, I just shouted, "What is it?".  He told me I had to come in and see for myself, and I begrudgingly got up.  When I turned the corner, there was Vijay, on one knee, with the ring box in hand.  I went into shock, and the first thing I said was "Wait, is this real?"  Vijay then said, "Well,if you say yes, it is!"  I don't really remember what happened next, because I was so surprised and everything was a blur.  Vijay tells me I said yes nine times (he counted), and then I started crying.  He was worried I was going to pass out because I was so overwhelmed with what was happening (overwhelmed with joy, of course!).  We then called our parents and family, who were just as surprised as I was with this unexpected Wednesday proposal!

3.) Wedding Day Details! 

- What is your wedding date, and have you picked out your colors/theme? 

Our wedding is July 2, 2016.  Our colors are light pink and navy.  We don't have a specific theme, but we are trying to create a look that is soft, romantic, and slightly vintage (pearls, gold accents, burlap, lace).

- Why did you choose the CCB for your upcoming wedding? 

We choose CCB for our wedding because we loved that the venue was beautiful, but simple.  We felt there were so many possibilities to decorate, and make the venue our own.  Some of the other venues we looked at did not have as much flexibility, and we appreciated that CCB was open about pricing and options.  We both had a great feeling about CCB based solely on the website.  We toured 6 venues in one day, and started with CCB.  The other venues paled in comparison!  

- What are you most looking forward to on your special day?! 

We are most looking forward to having our friends and family all in one place!  We are from two different states, and have lived in numerous parts of the country.  A lot of Vijay's family also lives abroad, so we have never had the chance to have all of our loved ones meet one another, and be together at the same time.  This is probably the only time in our lives that everyone will be together!  

*Erin and Vijay - Thank you SO much for sharing your special story with us! We are so honored and cannot wait to be a part of your special day on July 2nd!! 

Wedding Date: April 1, 2016

Wedding Colors: Black, White, and Red

Mother nature was definitely playing tricks on us here in West Bridgewater, MA on the day of Jessica and Vlad’s wedding. The morning brought misty rains, and the Doppler radar kept showing a dark green (rain, rain and more rain!) for the majority of the day. We knew how much an outdoor gazebo ceremony meant to Jess and Vlad, so we were crossing our fingers and hoping the rain would subside even just for a little while.

Luckily, our prayers were answered, as the gray skies began to lighten and a small of ray sunshine crept through the clouds. Red rose petals and kissing balls lined the aisle, as our first gazebo ceremony of the season began, and on “April Fools Day” of all days! J

Jessica, a vision in white, descended down the aisle to her love—Vlad. What a perfect way to start their special day!

Here are just a few of the special moments we captured from their wonderful reception here at the Canoe Club Ballroom! Congrats Jess & Vlad! 

Wedding Date: March 25, 2016

Wedding Colors: Silver and Light Pink

First Dance Song: “Die A Happy Man”

Ever since the first time we met Danielle, we knew hers and Christopher’s special day was going to be perfect. Danielle was our bubbly, super friendly and detail oriented bride. Every detail was carefully crafted and mapped out from the very beginning, so once the day had finally arrived—they were able to fully enjoy it J

One thing we have always told our couples on their wedding day is to try to be present, and enjoy their day! Dancing the night away among their family and friends, Danielle and Christopher did just that.

One of our favorite details from their special day included a personally crafted picture from Danielle’s mother. She had created a picture for guests to apply their thumb prints and sign as their guestbook!

Congrats again to Danielle & Christopher! Here are just a few of the special moments we captured from their big day! 

Wedding Date: March 19, 2016

Wedding Colors: Pewter and Light Pink

First Dance Song: “I Can’t Help Falling in Love”

One of our favorite aspects of Mackenzie and Darren’s special day was their hidden details!

For those of you who have a love for anything Harry Potter, you will understand how much we swooned over Mackenzie and Darren’s toast glasses! One glass had the symbol of the “deathly hallows” and the word “Always” , and the second glass had a steer patronous (oh snape, our hearts have melted!) They also had a unicorn piñata as a photobooth prop to display Mackenzie’s love for fun and unicorns!

Mackenzie and Darren were the type of couple that you just wanted to be around. Mackenzie’s smile would light up a room, and Darren was the easy-going guy that would make you laugh.

They were fun, family oriented, and just genuinely sweet people.

We hope that they enjoy these special moments that we captured from their big day, as much as we did! Congrats Mackenzie & Darren! 

 I had always dreamed of the day when I would be standing on a pedestal, surrounded by my nearest and dearest dressed in a white gown. So... the day after I officially said "yes to the dress", I decided to write about my experience so that I could always remember it! 

From one past bride to a future bride, here is my story! 

The ride from Pat and I's apartment to the bridal boutique was only about 25 minutes, but it felt like an hour. I don't know if I was anxious, excited, or anxiously excited but I could feel my heart beating faster and faster as we approached the shop. Strange and anxious thoughts started to pop into my head. 

"Should I wear my hair down today, even though I'll probably wear it up that day?!"

"Should I tell my mom to stop, so we can pick up a pair of shoes to try the dresses on with? (No, they obviously have shoes to sample there--duh!) 

Why was I so nervous? It's just a dress..... Well no, it's THE dress. The dress that I've been pinning ideas for on Pinterest since we got engaged last Christmas Eve. The dress I've been imagining myself walking down the aisle in for what seems like forever. The dress that would finally make me feel like all of this was actually REAL and happening.

To say I had a bridal crew with me that day would be an understatement. I had a full blown entourage. My mother, future mother in law, future sister in law, my maid of honor, aunt and grandmother all greeted me as we began to ascend the stairs to Ve'Lace Bridal's boutique shop. 

I took a quick glimpse of what would be our mini-sanctuary for the next hour. A white curved leather couch sat in the center of the room surrounded by beautiful bridal gowns. A floor length mirror stared back at me as I realized there were no other brides here. It was literally, just us. Just me. The way I had always hoped it would be. I knew I had found the perfect place! 

After chatting with one of the bridal consultants about my vision, (fit & flare, lacy look (well, not too lacy), textured accents, sparkle and a must needed belt that would tie everything together--yes I kinda knew exactly what I was looking for haha) it was time to start pulling gowns. 

All 7 of us began to scour the room, looking for that perfect gown. Some that we thought would work, others to just try "for fun"-- I honestly felt like a kid in a candy shop. Walking through the dresses as if I were in the lion, the witch and the wardrobe-- I overheard my nana and cousin talking about a gown on display. "This gown is beautiful, you need to try it on!" And they were right. It was beautiful. We pulled that last gown and made our way to the fitting room. 

As my bridal entourage clinked their champagne glasses on the couch to celebrate, I was in the little fitting room taking in the moment as I pulled on the first gown. 

Welp, here we go.

As I walked across the floor towards the white pedestal, I could feel that for the first time everyone's eyes were on me. What a strange feeling it was, standing there, staring at myself in the mirror in a bridal gown. I started to create a mental checklist as I turned to show off the different angles of the dress for everyone.

• Fit and flare? Check
• Sparkly? Check
• Textured accents? Check
• Lacy? Check

(Though we all agreed it was beautiful, I decided to try on a few more dresses for good measure.)

Dress # 2 : Pretty, but too much lace. I felt like a Dollie.

Dress # 3 : Beautiful, fit like a glove, but it just wasn't sparkly enough. Plain.

Dress # 4 : Lacy and straps? Too much, I couldn't even make the walk out to show everyone

Dress # 5 : Another lacy dress with straps that just didn't work out

Dress # 6:  More of a blush colored A-line....not a fan

None of the gowns fit or felt like the first one. They didn't have the sparkle that I was hoping for. Maybe it will be different if we added a little something? A belt? Yes, a belt! That's what we were missing the first time around. It has to be.

Belt # 1- Not enough sparkle and too much ribbon

Belt # 2 - Too skinny, way too skinny

And there it was. Belt # 3.

The Mon Cheri belt with the floral embellishments that sparkled as the consultant walked across the room with it. Looking into the mirror as she placed the belt below my chest, I got a weird butterfly type feeling in my stomach. Oh my god. This is it. This is what this actually feels like. For the first time, i could imagine myself getting married in this very gown.

As I turned around to show everyone, I couldn't help but blurt out "Yup! This is it!" And there they were-- cheering, agreeing as a happy set of tears shed throughout the room.

I looked at my mom and asked her what she thought. I honestly can't even remember what she said because the next thing I knew, she was standing there--crying right beside me on the pedestal and giving me the biggest hug. This was it. I found it.

The next several minutes have now become a blur but I did get to say the famous words, "yes! I'm saying yes to the dress"!

Advice for Future Brides: If I could give any advice to our future brides, I would definetely say to be open! Be open to the experience as a whole, and to try on different styles! You never know what style will work best until you give them all a try! 

Candy Stations have become one of the most popular wedding day favors over the past few years! Candy stations are a great way to bring out a couple’s whimsical personality, and are always a guaranteed hit with the guests!

Some stations are unique and colorful, others compliment a couple’s wedding colors perfectly and completely! Whichever approach you decide to take with your candy station, we always recommend purchasing a little extra candy—just in case we need to replenish it for you!

Here is a little candy station checklist of the items that you will need for your big day:

1.) Candy, Candy, CANDY! Many couples will purchase different types of candy, so that their guests have a variety to choose from! You can never have too much candy, trust us! :) 

2.) Jars and Holders! We have found that glass jars and holders work best! Different shapes and sizes will add a unique touch for your candy display.

3.) Scoops and Tongs for the different candy that will be displayed on your station.

Little advice: scoops are always better for M&M’s, Sixlets, gummi bears, and little candies! Tongs are a better option for any wrapped candies, gummi worms, etc!

4.) Bags for the candy! This is where you can get a little creative if you want! We’ve seen many couples provide monogrammed bags for their guests’ candy with their wedding date on it, just to add a little personalized touch for their special day.

5.) Signs! What better way to make a candy station yours, than by adding a cute sign for your guests to see! “Love is Sweet, Take a Treat” is one of our favorites!

And of course, here are a few candy stations we’ve seen over the past year!  

Wedding favors are a traditional way for couples to express gratitude to their guests for being apart of their big day!

Over the years, wedding favors have come in all shapes and sizes ranging anywhere from small votive candles, customized coasters, to anything chocolate-y and delicious!

Today, many couples are finding new and unique ways to say a simple “Thank You” to their guests—whether it be a simple thank you card at every place setting, dessert bar, or even setting up a candy station after dinner, wedding favors are always a great personal touch!

Below are some of our favorite and most popular favors!

•  Lindt Chocolate Boxes
•  Customized M&M’s
•  Jordan Almonds
•  Miniature Whoopie Pies (one of our favorites!)
•  Christmas Ornaments (winter weddings)
•  Hot Chocolate Mixes (winter weddings)
•  Cookie Mixes (new!)
•  Planting Seed Packets
•  “Mint to be” mint candies
•  Candy Apples (fall themed!)
•  Customized Coasters
•  Customized Shot Glasses / Beer Glasses
•  Cuzies
•  Photobooth Favor Magnet Frames
•  Dessert Bars
•  Candy Stations (check back in a couple weeks for another post about these!)